WordCamp Seattle
WordPress makes me want to be a better person.
Okay I get this is quite a heavy statement that is usually reserved for your significant other. Some of you may even think I have snapped. I can assure you I haven’t lost my marbles. The gravity of the statement isn’t lost on me, which is why I’m confident in my assessment. This weekend I attended my first ever WordCamp. It was an amazing experience that has me already considering traveling to Portland to see what their WordCamp is all about.
What about WordPress makes me want to be a better person?
Networking
In the process of planning to attend WordCamp Seattle, I sought out a couple people I tweet with on a regular basis that were going to be attending the conference I wanted to connect with. I couldn’t pass up the opportunity to meet face to face but also to discuss their thoughts on blogging, and WordPress. Networking and relationship building also seemed to be the underlying theme in many of the talks that I attended. Yay! I was doing something right and I didn’t even know it!
Knowledge
I’ll admit that when I first started the blogging process I had these grandiose ideas about the whole thing. This weekend I learned this isn’t uncommon as most people have the same conclusions.
Instead of having an impressive following where I would impart my knowledge of nutrition on others making me wildly successful that I could pursue my blog interest as a full time job. I have found myself gaining knowledge about website development, graphic design, SEO, and social media. Although this is completely unexpected, I’m relishing it. During WordCamp I actually found myself saying, “Damn that’s cool” during a Power User session that touched on CSS.
Goals
It’s been a little over a year since I first started laurieinseattle.com in that time I have reached some goals and re-evaluated other ambitions. However, the great thing that WordPress has done is caused me to explore goals I may not have even thought possible. This weekend helped me realize if I keep blogging and continue to build on my networking, and my knowledge that maybe one day I could reach my goal of having a successful blog.
Hiatus
I’m taking a hiatus from social media and the interwebs for a little bit. If you wish to reach me please use the Contact Me feature under the About Me menu option.
Thank you for your kindness and patience.
Sincere Regards,
Laurie
Goals for 2012
As I have said before, I do not believe in New Year’s Resolutions. I do however believe in goals. I believe in attainable goals where the person is set up to accomplish said goals. I see resolutions as a set-up for failure as resolutions usually involve beyond reach tasks that are usually not well defined enough or planned out well. Many people are too general when they make resolutions. They make resolutions like lose weight, get healthy, or watch less television. These are all great resolutions but when you make them too general without specific plans or deadlines, you are set up for failure before you even get started.
Psychologically calling short-term goals resolutions also is a way of mentally defeating yourself too. Many people do not fully invest themselves in resolutions but rather treat them with little regard. I liken resolutions to casual dating, and goals to marriage. When you casually date someone, there is not an expectation you are committed to that person, whereas with marriage there is the expectation of commitment.
My commitments/goals for this year are to:
- Run the Seattle Half Marathon in November.
- Learn Dutch by the end of June. (Complete half my Dutch lessons.)
- Cut sugar and meat consumption in half by the beginning of September.
What are your short-term goals for 2012?
What I learned in 2011..
2011 is a memory. As we embark on a new year, I reflect on last year. Someone asked me at the end of 2010 what my resolutions were for 2011. I said I didn’t like resolutions but my wish for the New Year was to have a better understanding of myself. I don’t know if I came out of 2011 with a better understanding of myself but I did learn a few things along the way. Here is what I learned.
- Surround yourself with people that geniunely care. Even if your family is the biggest set of drama queens on the planet and love making something out of nothing. They still care so it won’t kill you to spend a holiday or two with them.
- The only difference between some adults and children are bigger piggy banks. Just because someone puts on grown-up clothes, and plays at being a grown up doesn’t mean they have the emotional maturity of an adult. I used to believe I had to cut people like this out of my life. Instead I’ve learned to accept them at face value and roll with it.
- Avoiding something because you perceive it as evil or bad isn’t always a good idea. This is a filter I have been working on for many years. There will be many situations in life that will be less than ideal. Many situations will be rough and arduous. In those times you may meet some of the best people in the world. In fact if something seems too easy or wonderful then take it with a grain of salt. You may not find the situation as fruitful as anticipated.
- You are never too old to listen to your parents. My dad has been dead for 14 years. He was a trusted adviser and confidant. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t miss him. This year more than any when I was thrust into situations that were less than ideal. I would ask myself, what would dad do? Or what would Dad say about this situation?
- Say your excuses out loud. Many of us make excuses in our mind on why we didn’t do something. But have you ever stopped to say them out loud where they can be heard? I had this a few months back. I was chatting with someone about why I strayed from my workout plan to run the Seattle Half Marathon. When I told him; he said, “Is that it? You’re better than that.” He made me realize I was better than the excuse I justified in my head. He also helped me understand how ridiculous it sounded until I said it out loud.
I learned many things about life this last year. I thought these highlights were worth sharing. I hope you are able to find some of these useful as you begin your journey into a new year. One thing about life the more we learn about who we are, the better our communication skills.
I wish you all health, happiness, success, and more importantly love in 2012, Happy New Year!
